Then, Let's be friend ! *Hug*
It's be hard for him :s
But I wonder if some persons write letters who say your brother is better for him, it can maybe help ?
Aahhh sorry I really don't know how help you..
If she live since so long time it's thanks to your love :D (She look as always beg all your attentiveness, Ah I want to hug her !)
It will move quickly, be ready ! And get good time.